Friday, March 30, 2007

Adoption Creed




Not flesh of my flesh
Nor bone of my bone,
But still miraculously
My own.
Never forget
For a single minute:
You didn't grow under my heart,
But in it.


--Fleur Conkling Heyliger

Congratulations Candy Daley and any others that are beginning the journey of adoption. I pray the Lord will give you direction and already be at work preparing the heart of your child to receive you.

Blessings, Debbie

Monday, March 26, 2007

Running



One of the challenges we have faced with Anastacia is that she tends to bolt when she is in a situation that she is uncomfortable with or if she finds herself in the limelight or if she is upset with us. This can make for some interesting scenes out in public as she doesn't always stick to the sidewalks. Randy is usually the one that is in hot pursuit ( only because he tends to take her more places than I do). In the last couple of weeks he has been seen chasing "A" around the neighbors house, through a field near a bicycle shop, several times around the superstore, the church parking lot,....okay you get the picture. I'm thinking a retractable dog leash would come in handy about now.
Some people have commented " She will keep you young", I'm not so sure about that but at least we will be in good shape as we age.

We have been connected with a young girl living in the area that is from Bellarus. She is here as an exchange student and speaks both english and russian very well. We are so excited about this and hope to meet her soon. Anastacia spoke with her on the phone the other evening for about an hour and was so happy to be able to talk in her own language.

Randy took some abuse over the last picture of him and Anastacia in their Canadians Hats. I think I stirred the pot on that one. I must say she loves hockey, we got out to see her cousins Shane and Devin play a bit on the weekend. She was really into the game, constantly checking the score and cheering. She also begs to stay up and watch hockey on TV with Randy. Our little Ukie is becoming a real Canadian.

Thursday, March 22, 2007

Go Habs Go!



Randy has found a new "habs" fan. Anastacia gets very fired up when the reds score.

Saturday, March 17, 2007

"Wheels"


Anastacia recieved a special gift this week, Our neighbor gave her a beautiful bike that her daughter had outgrown. It was just the right size and with the addition of training wheels, Anastacia is on the move. Riding her bike has become her favorite thing to do. The first night after she recieved the bike she woke several times through the night saying" tomorrow bicycle".
The bicycle has also been a gift for us as we are able to use it to reward good behavior and encourage her to try new things.
Yesterday, Anastacia had her first dental check-up, she drives a hard bargain, that outing cost 7 bicycle rides.

Debbie

Monday, March 12, 2007

Home for a week!


The week has passed quickly and we all seem to be settling in nicely. Anastacia has definately taken up residence which is evident from the toys, books, movies and clothes that litter the floors of our home. We only ventured out of the house about three times,once for sledding, the grocery store, and church on Sunday. We haven't yet developed a routine for school but we have been squeezing in lots of reading and some crafts and Anastacia spends time each day playing on the piano and picking at the guitar
She loves her cat Mocha and takes care of all his needs.
It's been fun watching her interact with her brothers. I think they find her quite amuzing and they all enjoy teasing each other.
We are finding that her mood swings are calming down and she is becoming more predictable with her reactions. She gets easily overwhelmed and frustrated with new experiences so we are moving slowly. Overall she she seems happy and content with her new home and family.
Randy is happy to be back in the routine of work. Mitchell is home for March break and is working with Randy. I am loving the fact that the time has changed and we are getting more daylight.

Saturday, March 10, 2007

Pictures

A few pictures taken while visiting Sergei and Dina in Odessa!
Anastacia and their son Kirril!
The three of us!
Anastacia with Kirril and Alena
Also one of the infamous manholes waiting for a victim!





Thursday, March 08, 2007

We Are Family!

Yes it is is certainly feeling and looking that way around here. Nastya has settled in even more than I thought possible. The only problem I see right now is that despite all our efforts at bonding and such, we have now been relagated to second place behind Mocha the cat. Go figure, we spend countless hours and effort over nearly 7 weeks and along comes this kitten and instantly has first place in her heart. I'm really enjoying watching her in action, all the things going on in her new world right now. The life and the energy that she brings is a lot of fun to be part of. I know that we will turn around twice and these childish years will have passed, but in the meantime I am going to enjoy each moment as it comes. It is a little strange to be living the reality of it all right now. The thing that we longed for for so long has happened and in some ways , I still pinch myself to make sure this isn't all a dream.
Well I have one day in back at work, and it feels sooooo-good to be back into a routine. I still felt a little jet lag yesterday but I think it is finally past. Let me take you back to just one week ago today and give you a run down of what a day in this process can be like. Debbie and Nastya had left for Kiev the night before and I stayed behind to get her passport in hand. We needed one more signature from the police chief so we headed down early to be at the station for 9 am. Once there our translater went in and told me to wait , if I was needed she would call for me. After a little wait she came out and said that the chief was in a meeting and we could see him at noon. So with nearly 3 hours to kill we went for some breakfast to kill some time. Anyway we went back at noon hoping to get things wrapped up. Again she went in soon to return with the news we would have to wait until 2 pm. I realized at that point I was in for a long day. I went for a walk just to kill time and returned for 2 pm. This time we were successful and I thought great , lets head for the bus station and get out of Dodge. Hold it , not so fast. Because of our delays we missed our bus for Kiev. It left at one pm, so then we headed , you guessed it for that dreaded train. I new that the earliest train out never left till 8 pm but at least I would get there. Not so fast, no tickets for the first train. The next option was the later train which would be the all- nighter, even so that was all that was left. Not so fast, that train is full as well, now what??. My translator told me that I would have to wait till Friday, you've got to be kidding I said. She then started inquiring about trains leaving from other cities. She was told that there was room on a train leaving Dnipro, the city we had been in the day before. The problem was it was leaving at 5 pm. It was a little after 3 pm, with an hour and a half drive to the train station in Dnipro. I looked at our driver and he motioned towards the parking lot, and I new he was going for it. Well it was a fast ride on the highway, thats for sure, that little 4 cylinder was really tested but we made it, with about 15 minutes to spare. The trip from here a 6 hour journey. The only problem was I ended up in the cheap seats with no possibility of laying down, and ofcourse surrounded by folk that I couldn't speak a word to . Afrer struggling through 3 Russian movies on an old television set, trying to follow a story line, without understanding one word, I thought I would lose my mind. Anyway I did make it to Kiev and took a cab to the apartment where I was reunited with Debbie and Nastya. Another typical day of Ukrainian addoption behind me I finally crashed some time after mid-night.
I look back now and kind of laugh bit at the time I wasn't doing much laughing. Anyway we're still getting the house back to rights so I guess I'd better go and help, besides there's a little Ukrainian girl in our midst that may need her daddy. Catch you later, love Randy.

Tuesday, March 06, 2007

The Finish Line!

Yea, we passed the finish line at about 11:30 pm last night. Our flight from Toronto arrived at about 5:30 pm and after a visit with our son Jared who is staying with our friends Peter and Pam. We headed for home and arrived safely after encountering snow squalls the last hour of the trip. Anastacia slept most of the way but was wide awake when we got home and happy to meet another brother Ryan. We got her settled into bed around midnight and we all got a good nights sleep.
We could hear her moving in her room at about 7 am and Randy went to investigate. She was all dressed and was unpacking the 2 boxes of clothes,books, music and videos that her aunt Laura had packed up for us to bring from Toronto. She is a very independent little chick. Thanks to the Colwell cousins, we won't need to buy anything for some time.
Today was a snow day so Anastacia had visits from some of her cousins and of course met her grandparents and Aunt Kelly and Uncle Rick. It was much like Christmas day and for the most part she has handled all the excitement very well. The only thing missing was that elusive kitten that she so longs for. My brother Rick brought a fluffy kitten for her after lunch. You should have seen her eyes pop when she saw the kitten which she named Mocha.
I glanced in a while ago and she has mocha sleeping in a box and had prepared a nice area for his food. She has also prepared a tea party with my Silver Tea service which is badly tarnished and was drinking sugar water from a dusty cup and saucer. Needless to say I had to confiscate the works and clean it up before she could continue. She is certainly having fun exploring her new home and we are having fun watching all her antics.
People say that she is a lucky little girl but I say we are the lucky ones.

Debbie

PS Our camera was in the bag that got lost enroute so once we get it back we'll post more pictures.

Monday, March 05, 2007

Canada- Home SWEET Home!!

Good am everyone from upper Canada. As you probably already realize we are indeed FINALLY home, and yes how SWEET it is. I got to tell you a hot tub and a beer wasn't too hard to take when we arrived here at my sisters in Oakville. We forced ourselves to stay up last night even though our bodies wanted to crash. By the time we finally called it a day it was around 10:30 pm here which made it 5:30 am on our Ukrainian clock. Anyway did sleep well and ready to catch our early pm flight back to good ol' Nova Scotia.
I can't really describe to you all the feelng of actually being home, mere words don't seem enough somehow. There will be much time for reflection of all the past 7 weeks have held for us, but all that really matters is we came home with quite a treasure for our efforts. I'm so gratefull to be living this impossible dream out. It truly gives even more meaning to the the promise, { That with God, all things are possible.}Our little Nastya will be like a fish out of water for awile as she contends with the language barrier. I expect to be hearing a lot of her saying, { ya ne panimaete}, which in Russian means, I don't understand. Thats ok, the main thing we want her to understand is that she has a new home, a new family, and a new country to call her own and that she is loved.
We can't wait to get home and catch up with the rest of our family, it ought to be a nice reunion. I know a few days have past since you have heard from us , its just in the last end we didn't have access to the internet. There will be much to share as the days unfold for us and maybe we'll keep it going for a bit just to keep you all informed. I had an idea the other night and thought it would be good for Debbie and I to have tee-shirts made up that say, We Survived Ukrainian Adoption. Then I thought we'll get a bunch made up and include you all as so many of you have been along on our journey. All in all just excited to be home and can't wait to see you all soon. Thanks to my son Ryan for posting Nastya's pic, we will have more to follow later on. Love to all, Randy

Thursday, March 01, 2007

Picture


Hi its Ryan here... im posting this picture of Anastacia on Mom and Dads Behalf. Who does she look like most? Me? Mom? ...